Author: Vivian Cumins
Assumptions, accusations, pity, and blame
All emit from a society, uneducated in me
Questions, inquiries, probes, and shame
Try to blanket my existence; why can’t they see?
Offspring is tied to a woman’s worth
But her significance is rooted deep within
Her value is not attached to giving birth
A childless womb does not equal sin
A nurturing spirit is a gift from above
But some narrow it in scope
You don’t get to decide whom God gave me to love
For when He made me, He gave her hope
Two broken spirits, a single dad, and disrupted life
God chose to heal us, one-by-one-by one
Our lives were changed when I became his wife
Abandonment faded – I became her bonus-mom
Women nurture their kids, pets, and children of others
These words reflect my life – my fable
There are many like me – idle wombs, yet loving mothers
Respect a woman – judge not, nor label
So much is expected of women. We are taught from a young age that It’s our “job” to bear children..become doting wives. So much so that being unable to conceive is akin to being stripped of your womanhood in so many’s eyes..even often our own.
Hi Capri! Thank you for your comment. Such a great observation! Welcome!